How do you bring Zen into your Relationships?

How do you bring Zen into your relationships?

This is an interesting article about it: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/turning-straw-gold/201106/how-keeping-zen-mind-can-save-relationship

What I understand from it is to not get a fixed idea about your partner, but to allow them to always be a fresh surprise. There is something nice about this idea. But also, we get used to people and come to expect things from them. Arguably no one knows each others habits and patterns better than their relationship partner.

Sometimes I find Zen has a tough image. Does this factor into your relationships? Or does it bring out tenderness instead?

Feel free to share insights from your own experience! Thank you!

Submitted January 21, 2019 at 03:42PM by TsoDewa http://bit.ly/2Hp0sqA