Letting go is real, I have a gf right, been with her for 1 year now. I realized that sometimes I start to feel attached to her, and on those moments I get this thought that it would suck If I wasn't with her, its just that I think she's got something that other girls don't, she's really calm and wise, she cooks great, she's really quiet and passive and shes busty, I love her you know. But then I realize that all these feelings are really illusory, I notice they become so fake that I instantly let go of her, this is happening more and more, like, I love her but I don't care deep inside. I think it's great, weirdly it makes our bond stronger.
Also, I asked myself while sitting today (I was sitting by a lake close to home, alone drinking tea). I asked myself "why do we need instructions on zen, etc?". When you are lost in mayori, in the world, you need some kind of pointers, but you get to a point along the road in which the meditation instructions have to fall away, like the stakes around a young tree, at one point they are of no use anymore.
There were more insights, I might add them below this phrase.
Submitted March 18, 2018 at 07:56AM by Asasuma http://ift.tt/2DC3vEy
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